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    Home » Lifestyle

    January 8, 2019

    Lagom: A balanced life is a happy life

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Even if you don't happen to be an interiors enthusiast, I'm sure you must have come across the word 'Hygge' at some point. The Danish word which describes a way of living with cosiness, contentment and well being can probably be described as the interiors 'it' word of the past few years. I'm a big believer in making your home a haven for your heart, a refuge away from the hectic of the world outside the door. For this reason, I embraced 'Hygge' completely and tried to incorporate the concept throughout my home. Recently though, another lifestyle trend has slowly been making the rounds and I think I like the sound of this one just as much. The Swedish lifestyle 'Lagom' which although it doesn't have a literal English translation is said to be a relaxed way of living and 'Doing just enough'.

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Lagom - Getting it done but not overdoing it!

    It seems the Swedish people are masters at achieving the perfect balance in work and life or 'getting it done but not overdoing it'.

    So what does this all have to do with us and how can we all benefit from the Lagom lifestyle? Well, it seems to me that the Lagom lifestyle takes away the enormous amount of stress we all put upon our selves in trying to 'keep up' with everyone else or doing what we think is required of us.

    Doing just enough

    How often do we make excuses for not inviting friends around because we can't face the amount of housework that needs to be done before anyone is allowed in? How often do we tell our children they can't have their friends around today because we haven't cleaned up yet? 'Just doing enough' could mean, for instance, inviting friends into your home even if your house is not spotlessly clean – the point is that you meet up and enjoy each other's company without the stress of thinking about the amount of housework you have to do.

    Children want to build dens and camps and memories, they don't care about the huge pile of washing or that the carpets haven't been vacuumed today.

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Arranging a get together of any kind doesn't have to be an all-out grand affair either. A simple vase of garden flowers on the table is 'just enough' by way of décor. Don't have a vase? Use an empty bottle or glass jar, it doesn't have to be perfect!

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Lagom encompasses sustainability

    While we're on the subject of home décor, I'm a huge believer that no one should have to go into debt in order to have a lovely home. Think about what you really need and what you can honestly do without. The lagom lifestyle encompasses sustainability and being content with what we have. Comparing ourselves to others and envying their lifestyle is never going to make us happy. Instead, if we are grateful for what we've already achieved in our lives this will naturally make us content.

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Lagom mixes old and new

    Swedish homes are very often simply styled with a balance of elegance and practicality. Combining flea market finds and second-hand furniture with new furniture here and there. I think I know now why I find Lagom so inviting for me personally because this is what I try to do throughout my own home. I upcycle old furniture and put it in a modern setting along with new shop bought items. For examples of this, just take a look at some of my furniture tutorials here.

    A few plants here and there and some seasonal accessories also help to blend old and new styles together. I make good use of Mother Nature's lovely garden for most of my home décor. Dried seedheads, reeds from the riverside, ferns, flowers, grasses, sticks and stones. There are so many ways to decorate with these wonderful gifts of nature and best of all – they're free!

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Happiness is not a destination, it's a way of life!

    EMBRACING THE LAGOM LIFESTYLE

    Lagom - Not having too much and not too little – just enough

    So where do we start if we want to embrace the Lagom lifestyle? Well, in the home this could mean that our rooms should not be overfilled with things, whether it be furniture or accessories. We need to create a balance between having what we need but not having too much. This doesn't mean that our rooms should become bare and cold – not at all. We can still cosy up with throws, accessories and candles, it just means we shouldn't overdo it and cram our rooms full of unnecessary things.

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Creating a sustainable lifestyle

    When it comes to choosing items for our homes, we need to keep sustainability at the front of our minds. We should choose natural materials like wood, wool, or recycled plastics which are produced with our environment in mind.

    We also need to pay close attention to where our products are coming from. Stores everywhere offer worldwide shipping these days but do we really need to have items shipped from overseas? Does it really take, containers full to the brim of 'stuff', to be shipped from one continent to another to make us happy? Lagom says no! Let's support our local businesses by buying locally whenever we can.

    Creating a calm environment

    When it comes to choosing colours for our homes, the Lagom lifestyle favours natural muted hues found in nature. These colours impress upon us a sensation of calm and relaxation as soon as we walk in the door.

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    If you're more of a colourful person, you could add pops of colour with accessories which can be easily swapped out through the seasons. Choose classic pieces which will stand the test of time instead of purchasing items in trend colours. These will only be collecting dust on a shelf somewhere when that particular trend is over.

    Decluttering your home

    To be honest I think the best place to start with the Lagom lifestyle would be with a good old-fashioned de-cluttering session.

    Now, if you've lived in your home a long time, the thought of decluttering may seem a little overwhelming in itself but not to worry, I have a plan for Lagom to help here too.

    Lagom, a balanced life is a happy life. How we can all bring more harmony and balance into our homes by following the Swedish concept of "Not too much, not too little, just enough".

    Start with one room at a time and make a list of the things you'd like to change. Break your list down into small achievable daily tasks and make a start. Know that you need to do 'just enough' to see a progression and don't stress if for some reason it can't be done. Lagom is about doing what matters and letting the rest take care of itself. Keep plugging away at your list and sooner or later, it will be empty of things to do!

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    If you want to dive deeper and really get to grips with the clutter in your home, I created a five-day email course for our Newsletter subscribers called 'Declutter Success'. This free mini course will give you quick results in the short term but aims at helping you maintain a clutter free environment in the long term. If you achieve your best results using worksheets, you'll be happy to hear there are some printables included with this course. 😉 Click the image below to sign-up.

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    The ten minute tidy

    Once you've finished de-cluttering, try to make a habit of devoting ten minutes a day to tidying up. The next time a friend suggests a spontaneous meet-up, you can accept in the knowledge that you're only ten minutes away from a tidy house!

    What do you think? Will you give the Lagom Lifestyle a chance to prove its worth? Let us know in the comments if you have any more tips for creating balance at home.

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    1. Mariela says

      January 11, 2019 at 5:32 pm

      Love this! I think I would like to live a Lagom lifestyle.

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      • Jayne Westerholt says

        January 14, 2019 at 6:10 pm

        Glad you like it, Mariela. I'm sure a little bit more of the 'Lagom' lifestyle would do us all good!

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    2. Cecilia says

      July 20, 2020 at 2:08 am

      I have not heard this term before, but the concept reminds me of Proverbs 30. Thanks for sharing at Vintage Charm!

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      • Jayne Westerholt says

        July 21, 2020 at 8:06 pm

        You're welcome Cecilia!

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